Assbutt update:
Okay I like this one even more than DPtMSShC, it's... delicious. I keep smelling myself. My cat is less enthusiastic (his favorite closed bottle to sniff has been 100% That Bitch, oddly, the opposite of his brother's reaction), but I am LOVING this one.
Before, opening the bottle it was very heavy on the incense and I couldn't really detect the marshmallow. Now that it's had time to settle after shipping, in bottle it smells a little more even-- the incense is still the first note and the strongest in-bottle, but the tuberose holds its ground, and while I wouldn't have been able to name 'toasted marshmallow', there's a sweetness there.
Fresh on the skin, though? Oh, that's when it went from 'nice' to 'AMAZING'. The incense keeps it feeling more gender neutral, and really complements the tuberose beautifully, and tuberose is a floral I do really enjoy, but it's that hint of marshmallow that REALLY keeps me leaning in and taking another sniff. It's softer than the other notes at first, and it's not until it's on my skin and warmed up a bit that it really blooms and joins the party, but once it does, it is downright addictive. If DPtMSShC was inviting? Assbutt grabs me by the collar and reels me in for another sniff.
As it dries down on me, the incense and tuberose scents meld together into something that feels suitably masculine but pleasantly floral, great springtime scent-- and the toasted marshmallow (and the marshmallow does smell TOASTED, I don't know how but I'm loving it) is this really nice little touch that sometimes comes forward a little but mostly hangs back, tantalizes you with a hint but makes you come in for more. Would wear this on a date, in non-pandemic times.
(also, final thoughts on DPtMSShC-- fades out really nicely at the end of its wear time. Has a good amount of throw for a perfume oil, lasted on me all evening. I smelled good when I went to bed, that's a win.)